Our Journey to Forever

The benefits of blogging

2012-01-21T19:52:00.001+08:00

Ok. This entry is long overdue but I promised myself this deserves an entry and space in this blog to show my sincere gratitude. After my story on my first ever online prize here, I somehow attracted series of lucky occurrences. Yey for me. I won several raffles from the holiday parties I've attended. Though not the big winner, still, i was able to take home some prizes including prizes from simple games from the parties. :-)

Blogging for me is an avenue to express myself, my thoughts, my feelings....myself.....through writing. I find serenity in this little space. And the good thing is, (which I just discovered last year) I can win prizes just by blogging! Yey!

A BIG

to Sis Micah of Micanonymous for the gift. Really liked it!

Bath set with loofahs and lotions

I wonder what will i get next? Hmmm..... ^__^

Baby's First Day Out

2012-01-20T23:50:00.003+08:00

Date: Jan. 14, 2012
Event: Celebrating 32nd Wedding Anniversary of A's Parents
Where: Tagaytay
What: Apart from the anniversary, it is also Jared's first out of town trip.
Sorry, not being lazy but I have really little time to do this. I'm watching the last episode of My Binondo Girl! hahaha.
I need to update so let the pictures tell the story. :P

@ Ming's Garden

@ Ming's Garden with Tita Kat

Believe me, it was my FIL's (Father in Law) first time in Tagaytay. Can't blame him. He spent more years in Middle East.

Father and Son bonding moment via Zip Line


Jared is one camera addict. Look at him smiling and looking at the camera while all of us are not yet even ready.


Lasing sa Buko? Lunch @ RSM Lutong Bahay

Bungisngis ever!

Pa-sweet lang...

MIL & FIL: Still Happy and In love after 32 years of marriage

Me and My Spoon....as always. Jared behaves when we give him spoon and so we can enjoy our meal and eat peacefully

My favorite shot of the day.

Jared kissing me back

3 Generation of Tria. Hahaha...Jared you are one cute funny baby!

The Star of the Day are not the celebrants but this little man.

Getting rid of Mommy's shades. hahaha

Our crepes @ Cafe Breton, Tagaytay

Sealed with a kiss

Jared: "Lolo, I have something to tell you."

Jared: "Secret!" very naughty look....naku! may future ka anak. :P

Such a cutie on his hoodie

Dinner @ Carlos Pizza

Simply happy!

Silver Boobies

2012-01-05T23:22:00.004+08:00

Cheers!!! Yes! I am celebrating because I have surpassed 6 months and still counting of EXCLUSIVE breast feeding. Whew!!! That's a big big achievement for a working mom like me.

As I write this entry, it's actually 6 moths and 10 days and with this, I earned my Silver Boobs Award. In nursing calendar these are the important milestones:

Nursing for 3 Months = Bronze
Nursing for 6 Months = Silver
Nursing for 12 Months or 1 Year = Gold
Nursing for 24 Months or 2 Years = Platinum

I'm targeting the Golden Boobies. *Sigh* That's a lot of hard work to do, because I will still carry that extra bag (insulated bag for expressed milk) with me everyday I go out of the house. Need a lot of patience especially now that Baby J is developing his first set of teeth. Patience not to snap at him whenever he tries to bite my nippies and patience in carrying him at times I nurse him while standing. At 6 months, Baby J weighs almost 10kgs. That's a normal weight of a one-year old baby. Oh boy, he really is a BIG baby.

Need to continuously drink lots of water, have soup in my meal regularly, take that malunggay supplement everyday and avoid drinking caffeine and ofcourse alcohol.

Though I have several sacrifices because of breastfeeding, I know I have and enjoyed the benefits of it more than doubled. First, the reward of FREE supply of milk. That's a lot of savings! As in Big Time! If my milk stopped after 2 months of giving birth, our expenses will surely shoot up high. Considering 1 can of milk is 1k that will last for a week. That's already a clear savings of not less than 16K for 4 months just for milk. At the rate he drinks milk, I doubt my son will only consume 1kg can of milk in a week. Na-ah!

Second, the unexplainable joy of producing and providing for your baby. Nature's natural way! Simply amazing. Third, the pleasure of bonding together. The two of us. Mother & Son. The way he looks at my eyes while he drinks simply melts my heart....always.

Aaahh...the simple rewards of being a mother.

Well, I think, the blue nursing cloth will not have its break anytime soon! NOT YET : P

While nursing in a coffee shop. Baby J fully covered, you'll think I'm just wearing a shawl. hehehe

Happy Christmas! Happy Feet! Happy Me!

2011-12-31T00:48:00.005+08:00

This month, we celebrated our 2nd wedding anniversary. It was very simple and plain. A even reported for work while I stay at home but still working from home nga lang! :P
We wanted to keep it that way. But A managed to bring gifts for me. Hot Bibingka, Quickly's Super Taro Ice + my favorite box of chocolates....Ferrero Rocher! Yey! We told each other that official gifts will be claimed in a later date.

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It's the very first time we celebrated Noche Buena were all members of my family (Rovero Family) are complete!!! It was a simple get together and yet so happy and for sure will be memorable even for the rest of the members of my family.

Rovero Family

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2 days after Christmas was my birthday!!! Hooray!!! Since I am officially on vacation, and A had his VL too, we decided to celebrate both our anniversary and my birthday last 27th. First stop was High Street. Time to claim for our gifts! Since we celebrated 3 occasions this month, I have the right to claim 3 gifts! Yey!

comfy...thanks may ganito..ikaw na magbuhat ng halos 10kgs!!! Waahhhh!
Carrier: Ergo Baby

1. Anniversary Gift
2. Christmas Gift and
3. Birthday Gift

Si A, 2 lang...hehehe, minus his birthday.

We went from one shop to another and ended up shoe shopping!!! Yey again!!! Good Lord, Jared was so cooperative and remained contented and happy on his stroller and even enjoyed being held in his baby carrier as we stroll from one shop to another. After which, we satisfied and fill our empty tummies with comfort food from Cafe Juanita at Burgos Circle.

Dinner at Cafe Juanita

Ofcourse, birthday celebration will not be complete without a cake and candle to blow! :P

It was another simple yet memorable birthday celebration for me. I spent it with the two most important people in my life. A and J. ^__^

Triple X from Sugar House

The celebrants: My 30ish Bday and Jared 's 6th Month

Gift #2: Classic Black

Gift #1: Isn't it fab? Will surely feel like a star if i wear this! :P

Gift #3: My very first pair from NW

Papahuli ba si A? Gift #1 nya

Obviously, Our Christmas is really Merry!!!
Blouse: Kamiseta
Necklace: Gifted (Thanks Esa)
Shorts: Bazaar find
Ring: Arty - Prize from online promo by NYOBQ

SEND-ong

2011-12-21T13:02:00.000+08:00

This is one of the many good reasons to share and give love, not only for the spirit of Christmas but because we simply CARE.

Go on, I just did!

Poster by Dan Matutina of twistedfork.me

poster grabbed from SUYEN's blog.

Ever First Online Prize

2011-12-17T23:26:00.002+08:00

A big big THANK YOU to Mar of NYOBQ. Finally got the arty inspired ring! Was so so happy!!!
The delivery arrived last Dec. 13 but I only had the time to blog about this today. Apologies. Been so busy with lots of deadlines left and right. Actually, this is just a short break...the baby is already asleep...so I can now have the "short" pleasure of doing my online reading, FB and blog entry.... Bilis Bilis baka magising si baby! :P

As the title of this entry says, this is the very first time I won a prize for an online promo. The promo is about celebrating "Eight Weeks of Christmas" where you have to share "How to spread love this season".

When I saw the packaged, apart from black, It was the next shade I like to win. ^__^

Isn't it gorgeous?

Simply Lovely....

I'm feeling like a princess wearing this! ^__^

Great timing coz Christmas is fast approaching and my birthday too!!! Can't wait to wear this.

Again, A bunch of Thanks to Mar of NYOBQ for being so generous. Let's all share love not only this season but all year round.
Love! Love! Love!

Wish List

2011-12-06T16:55:00.000+08:00

Christmas is just around the corner...Bilis!!! Ilang tulog na lang. This is the first time I will be bold in telling what I want to get hopefully this coming holidays. Apart from Christmas, this month, will be celebrating our 2nd Wedding Anniversay on the 19th and my Birthday on the 27th. So, I hope, some of those in my list will be granted this month. *cross fingers*

And the list goes....

My Wish List:
1. iPhone 3GS white butterfly case or
2. iPhone 3GS black and pink butterfly case or
3. iPhone 3GS case in Neon Pink, Green or Orange ^__^
4. iPad 2 with Pink casing! syempre!
5. iPhone USB cable...please, I badly need a new one!
6.1 Anne Klein Gold Watch Charm
6.2 Anne Klein Garden Watch Charm (can be Fossil Watch Charm too :p)
7. Estee Lauder Pleasures Perfume
8. blazer of that type
9. Kor Bottle
10. Knomo Serra Trolley Laptop Bag (I really need this one or at least a durable laptop trolley bag!)
11. pink floral shoes ^__^
12. Nude or Beige pumps
13. Red strap shoes ^__^
14. Out of the country getaway.
15. Longchamp Travel Bag (syempre pink pa rin! :P)
16. A trip to the Salon for a new hair color. (This time I want dark brown)
17. Pearl Necklace
18. A bouquet of my favorite chocolate! (Ferrero Rocher)
19. Boracay!!! Or a beach vacation
20. Cruise!!!! Can start at Asian Cruise :P
21. A relaxing body massage. Can be couple massage para kasama si Hubby. :-)

And for my baby boy....I hope he gets the following. Ninongs and Ninangs!!! Please take note of these!!!!

1. Stackable Toys
2. Shape Shaper
3. Diaper Supply!!! Pwede 1 year supply? Baby J uses Mamy Poko brand.
4. Stroller Pad
5. Ball (for now, soft ball muna kasi he is still so young)
6. Baby pants with cute animal bottoms
7. Baby Bedding (I want of green color or with animal designs)
8. Baby Car!!!
9. More white sandos

Wishing someone will respond to these wish list!!!

December is....

2011-12-04T21:35:00.000+08:00

For me, December is:

1. The best season in a year.
2. The happiest month because of series of family affairs, best time to have reunions and the time where we all have parties almost everyday.
3. The busiest season of all. Shopping left and right, traffic jams, Year-end and Christmas Sale everywhere.
4. The new June. Many weddings happens in December.
5. 13th month and Bonus pay out.
6. For Philippines, nice weather. Not too hot, not too cold.
7. Where majority of Pinoys go out to hear mass for "Simbang Gabi". Simbang Gabi is a long time Filipino tradition where people go out early in the morning to attend mass as early as 4am.
8. Season for hot and delicious puto bumbong and bibingka.
9. Season where almost all streets are lighted with different colors and festive designs.
10. People are more generous. Hope Baby J's Ninongs and Ninangs will have gifts for him. hehehe.
11. You will shop for gifts for your friends and love ones.
12. You'll buy a new dress or shoes for yourself.
13. Is the month I can file a long leave and have fun bonding with family.
14. Is where colors where Red, Gold & Green can be seen everywhere.
15. Christmas Carols.
16. Is the season you double or triple your coffee, tea and frappuccino consumption just to get that collectors edition of Starbucks, Coffeebean, Seattle's Best or any Coffee calendar/organizer.
17. Your telephone bill will increase because of txt messages and call you will make especially during the 24th, 25th and 31st. If you get through the UNLI promos of leading telco's, then you're lucky!!!
18. You'll not be too guilty if you eat sweets big time!!!
19. The best reason to skip diet and exercise!!! Yey!
20. You'll attempt to contemplate and think if you have been good, better and wiser before the year ends and will check if you have accomplished at least two from last year's "new years resolution" list.
21. Time to start your NEW "New Year's Resolution List for 2012" ^__^
22. You'll get drunk Big Time from at least one of the many parties you'll attend. (This one is a BIG NO for me now coz I'm still exclusively breast feeding! ^__^)
23. Is our wedding anniversary month.
24. Is my birth month!!! Yey!!!
25. Above all, December is the time of the year we celebrate CHRISTmas. The day Jesus Christ was born.

I can write and add more but will limit it to 25 reasons...wala lang. kasi Dec. 25 is Christmas. hehehe (babaw!)

Well, December or Christmas season has been so commercialized that sad to admit, majority of us loses the true meaning of the season. Santa Claus seems to be the main character when in fact, it should be JESUS. :-(
As I heard today's preaching from the service at Victory Galleria, it helps me wonder and indeed inspired me to write about the "COLORS OF CHRISTMAS" (that's the title of this month's series). The first color is GREEN which means LIFE. And through God, one can have an abundant LIFE of
1. Healing
2. Growth
3. Freedom and
4. Promises/Heirs
5. Relationships
6. Strenght
Wow!!! Imagine these! Amazing right?

I'm excited to hear the next week's color which is RED.

Also want to share what I found from "The Mom Blog". This is so nice and will try to include this on my daily Bible reading:

How do you keep Christ the center of your Christmas?

1
Luke 1:26–33
Who told Mary that she would have a baby?

2
Matt. 1:18–21
Why did Mary and Joseph name the baby “Jesus”?

3
Luke 2:3–6
Why did Joseph and Mary go to Bethlehem before Jesus was born?

4
Luke 2:7
Why did Mary lay baby Jesus in a manger?

5
Luke 2:8–11
To whom did the angel announce the Savior’s birth?

6
Luke 2:12
What was used for a cradle for baby Jesus?

7
Luke 2:13–14
Who joined the angel in praising God?

8
Luke 2:15–17
Where did the shepherds go after the angels left?

9
Matt. 2:1–2
How did the Wise Men know that Jesus had been born?

10
Matt. 2:7–10
Where did Herod send the Wise Men?

11
Matt. 2:11
How did the Wise Men show that they knew the young child was the Savior?

12
Matt. 2:13–15
Why did Joseph take Mary and Jesus to Egypt?

13
Matt. 5:6
Jesus Christ taught that we will be blessed for seeking righteousness. Spend at least 10 minutes reading scriptures or scripture stories.

14
Matt. 5:9
Jesus Christ taught that we should be peacemakers. Be a peacemaker in your family by not arguing with others.

15
Matt. 5:16
Jesus Christ taught that we should be good examples to others. Set an example by choosing the right.

16
Matt. 5:43–44
Jesus Christ taught that we should love our enemies. In your personal prayers, ask a blessing for someone who has been unkind to you.

17
Matt. 6:3–4
Jesus Christ taught that we should help other people. Perform a secret act of service for a member of your family.

18
Matt. 7:7–8
Jesus Christ taught us that our prayers will be answered. Volunteer to say the family prayer.

19
Matt. 7:12
Jesus Christ taught us to treat others as we would like to be treated. Write a letter to someone who is far away, such as a missionary or grandparent.

20
Luke 17:12–19
Jesus Christ praised the leper who thanked Him. Write a note or draw a picture to thank your Primary teacher for what he or she has taught you.

21
Mark 10:13–14
Jesus Christ showed that children are very important to Him. Show your love for a brother, sister, or parent by reading a story to him or her.

22
Matt. 22:37–39
Jesus Christ taught us to love our neighbors. Work with your family to do something nice for a neighbor.

23
John 13:34
Jesus Christ told us that we should love one another. Show your love to your parents by helping without being asked.

24
Isa. 9:6
The celebration of the birth of Jesus Christ is a time for joy. Write in your journal the feelings you have for Him.

25
will take the recommendation of reading the whole Christmas story in Luke 2 on Christmas day.

Time Out

2011-12-03T13:51:00.000+08:00

Been so busy and stressed lately, I really need that break. Time to pamper thyself.

cracked red nail polish for a change!!! Why not!

si hubby, nakisali din! Sakit noh?

Removed those unwanted hairs too!
Hope to get that facial and new hairstyle and haircolor anytime soon.

The 30-Day Mommy Challenge

2011-11-20T00:09:00.002+08:00

Found this at Mommy Mec's blog post and thought this is worth while re-posting for me to at least remember it and some of my friends that can read this be inspired and take the challenge by themselves.

As I go through the list, for sure, I won't be able to complete all of them in 30 days!!! My son is too young for some of the items from the list.

I think, what I can do for now is only 11 out of 30 which are numbers 2, 3, 4, 5, 10, 11, 12, 14, 16, 17 & 19.

I want to challenge myself and do Number 29!!! ^__^

Lady in Black

2011-11-19T23:01:00.001+08:00

Black is my color now. That I noticed lately. As I open my closet, most of my clothes now are in black. 1/3 of it actually!!! Well the obvious reason is I'm trying to hide that big belly after giving birth!!! Sssshhhh! Yes, I'm trying...but not quite successful though! hahaha! Others thought that I am still pregnant coz I indeed look like a 4-month pregnant lady. Huhuhu :-(

I thought breast feeding will turn me back to my pre-pregnancy body size in an instant! Well, asa na lang ako!

For now, I will conceal in black to look slimmer! :P

Blazer: from Cache Cache
Dress: Bazaar find in Market Market
Shoes: Charles & Keith
Bag: Kenneth Cole
Small Bag: Thermos insulation bag for the breastmilk. Yes, I always bring that bag with me almost everywhere :P

Update on Random Things

2011-10-31T15:29:00.002+08:00

Citrus Water with Home Made Turon

My version of DIY Citrus Water. This was inspired by Mary Grace Cafe. Another way to have your water smell and even taste better. I'm trying to cut off my intake of tempting Coca Cola Soda or Iced Tea.

Poured over some chocolate syrup and the joy of eating this home made turon doubled a thousand time. hehehe. I am really a certified sweets enthusiast.


Turon sprinkled with Hersey's Chocolate!!! Yum!

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Early Christmas Presents for Baby Jared

Mommy Jhan was a bit excited and have her few purchases for Baby J wrapped as early as October! hahaha. Mukhang mapupuno ng maaga ang aming Christmas Tree! :-)

Shopping Cart

2011-10-16T14:14:00.003+08:00

SHOPAHOLIC? Yes I am!!! I can relate so much to Becky Bloomwood. (the lead character of Sophie Kinsella's book series on Shopaholic) But I am proud because i am better than Becky Bloomwood. I still can control my shopping expenditure. :D

In fact, I am incomparable to her in a sense that I am not a signature or branded shopper. As long as I have a purchase, even it costs less than P10 or a thousand box, the feeling it gave me is still the same. :P

For me, shopping is like an elixir that makes me on high!!! I remember, my boyfriend (now my husband) will put his hands on the side of my eyes (like those of horse's blinkers to make them focus on the road itself, keeping their eyes from seeing beside and behind) whenever we pass to Landmark, Glorietta, then to SM before we take the MRT. It is his sort-of-effective way of keeping me walking from point A to B with very minimal distractions of whatever items are on display. Hehehe. Makati girls who take the MRT (Ayala Station) can relate to me on this. Because the short cut or better say air conditioned long cut going to MRT is from Landmark's 2nd level (Women's Floor from trinkets, shoes, apparels & bag, etc.) then to Glorietta and then to SM, Makati. Imagine the distractions or many "window shopping" I do every night. (Happy Me!!!) Then after taking off from North Edsa MRT Station, there are couple of malls again that brightened up my eyes. (Trinoma & SM North Edsa) Hahaha!!!

There was also this period in my life when A and I were already engaged (2009) and we were really trying to save every penny we earn for our wedding day, I literally avoided shopping malls. My almost everyday mall tour was put on hiatus. I tell you, it made me frustrated, down and blue. It was totally not healthy for me, physically (physically daw oh? well, shopping can be an exercise! Walking non-stop from one level to the other. From one boutique to the other!!! :D) and emotionally.

Like what I say, I really feel happy whenever I have a small bag or a new purchase with me before going home. Be it food, accessory, one tank top and even one ballpen or post-it pad!!! I am simply in a bliss.
I also don't mind where to shop. Be it in sophisticated malls like Rustans to the overly crowded Divisoria.
As long as I do my shopping (even Window Shopping) in a regular basis!!!

Sharing with you some of my latest mall find that I am so proud of!!! :D


Shower Curtain: Peso Power = P150; I actually bought 3 with different designs :D

Serving Bowl: Peso Power = P55; I bought 4 different colors!!! :D

I am actually planning to go to Divisoria for my first batch of Christmas Shopping before people from all corners of Luzon flock their way starting Nov to Dec.

--- Shopaholic Mommy,

It's a Bronze!!!!

2011-10-01T20:25:00.002+08:00

Yey!!! I earned my Bronze Boobie Award last week, Sept. 28, 2011. I'm exclusively breastfeeding baby Jared for 3 months and 3 days to be exact!

Whew! This is not easy job you know?! I am a working mom and just got back to work last Sept. 5. It is really challenging for me! VERY CHALLENGING!!! Why? Because I am always on meetings and going out a lot for client calls. To sustain my milk production, I need to express milk at least every 2-3 hours. But because of series of meetings everyday...and very long list of unread emails...i ended up expressing every 6 hours. There were couple of days, I expressed 8 hours in between. This was bad and resulted my right boob to decrease milk production. My regular produce will give me 4oz per boob. But on my 3rd week at work, my right boob produced only 1oz. It's a big No No for me. I was so frustrated and sad for being too focus on work. *Sigh*

Good thing, when I went to my OB for my 2nd dose of vaccine for cervical cancer, she shared with me some tips to help increase my milk production. I increased my in-take of lactating supplement from once a day to twice a day. Drink lots of water. Include soup in my main meals everyday. Not ordinary soup but soup with MALUNGGAY leaves. My husband is actually complaining that he is so (nasusuya) so sick of Malunggay now!!! hahaha!!! He said, he can be a substitute and can offer his own boobs for milk. hehehe. And, the most important of all is to make sure that I will expressed milk at least every 2-3 hours to help stimulate milk production.

True enough, with discipline and a lot of effort, I was able to revive and put my milk production back to normal. I'm producing a regular of 3 to 6 oz per boob!!! Yey!!!

So, I'm very very happy that when I reached 3rd month, I was again on high!!!

Kudos to other nursing mothers!!!

I am a proud Bronze Boobie and counting days to reach Golden Boobie Award!!! :P

Notes:

Nursing for 3 Months = Bronze
Nursing for 6 Months = Silver
Nursing for 12 Months or 1 Year = Gold
Nursing for 24 Months or 2 Years = Platinum

Celebrating Bronze Boobie Award!!!

1st Parteeehh!!!! part 2: The Cake

2011-09-27T22:01:00.003+08:00

As mentioned in my previous entry, the chosen theme for our son's dedication is "Angry Birds".

First, I tried and inquire from our trusted local bakeshop Goldilocks and Red Ribbon to check if they have already theme cake for Angry Birds but apparently...None. They only have the regular baby cakes , disney, cars and Ben 10 cakes for boys. And so, the search for a good patissier (Pastry Chef) started. Knowing Multiply and Sulit, I've search and search for suppliers doing customized cake. Also bumped to a theme cake supplier "Cakes R Us" in Megamall whom the owner was very accommodating and helpful. I almost seal the deal with Cakes R Us, however, someone pledge to get my son his Angry Bird theme cake and so, sad to say, I have to backed out and withdraw my order.

I already have a sample Angry Bird Cake that I want the cake supplier to copy or at least customized for us. It's just a simple 8" cake. Not a fan of styro layered cakes! For me, all should be edible! :P
At first, I was thinking of having cupcake tower cakes with 8" cake on top. However, again, due to budget constraint, I have to limit my choices. *Sigh*

I even tried to look of a caterer who can do all the package from food, cake, tarpaulin and party favors similar to what Max's Restaurant offers. But even if caterers are willing to have such package, still, they won't be able to do customized theme cake.

And so upon searching, inquiries here and there, exchange of emails from one supplier to another, I settled and chose Icings 'n' Sprinkles. The owner, Anna Yap has suggested a theme angry bird cake design she already did for her previous client and showed it to me if I want it that way too. With the limited time left to place the order and decide, I said Yes to the available Angry Bird cake design. It is not made of fondant and gum paste molding but she promised me that same tasty and shelf-life quality will be preserved.

True enough, the cake was beautifully tasty. Everything edible. Well, except for the sticks that holds the Angry Bird cookie and the letters. c",)

I loved the chocolate cake. It's not too sweet and moist. The soft texture, just right. The icings are my favorite...it's really so yummy!!! The cookies, though hard (as expected) is delicious too!
If I am to rate, 5 the highest, it will be:

Presentation & Design: 4
Taste: 5
Customer Service: 3
Peso Power: 4 (At P1,250 or approximately 29 USD, I find it sulit)

Here's the cake made by Icings 'n' Sprinkles

Munching on the Angry Bird cookie after the party!!! :P

Happy Mommy

1st Parteeehh!!!! part 1

2011-09-20T09:16:00.004+08:00

work + demanding baby = busy mommy

Yes! That's ME :-)

I returned for work last Sept. 5. And for 2 weeks, I've been busy already (as expected). Meetings here and there, updates here and there and long list of unread emails that even added more pressure and stress.

Even before I return for work, I was busy thinking of possible party themes, looking for suppliers, and making my guests list, etc. in preparation for our son's dedication (Christian way of Baptism or Christening). I am so proud and happy of the outcome of my son's dedication happened on Sept. 17. I found out too na magastos din pala ang binyag!!! Grabeh!!! parang kasal?!!! hehehe.

BTW, A BIG thank you for family and friends who celebrated with us! ^__^

Anyways, I will write about baby J's dedication in phases. Let me start with my DIYs 'coz I'm proud of it. :P

Let's start with the theme. Basically, I just don't want a typical, blue baby boy theme. I don't want the typical disney babies, barney and baby stuff and so the quest for trendy theme is a bit of a challenge for me given just a month to organize it before I dwell or get too stressed because of office-works. But considering budget, (which is the biggest FACTOR) i told myself that if I pick a theme, I have to stand with it from invitation down to souvenirs. Time + Budget are two things made me juggle If I should make a themed party or just throw an out of the package party offered by restaurants (i.e. Max's Restaurant). 3 weeks before the chosen date, I trimmed down my choices to 2:

1. Simply Blue: A typical theme for a baby boy. I thought of blue Dots or Circles and teddy bears. Simple!

2. Angry Birds: This is one of the current, popular and enjoyed game characters not only of kids but even by adults. I'm excited doing this but is also challenged to add and or bring out cuteness in it for a baby party. I thought a baby theme is all about cuteness, happy, light, colorful and sweet but not ANGRY!!! hahaha.

I must admit that in order for us to fit within the budget, DIY is of great help and value. And so, I tried to study photoshop and started to look for suppliers and websites that will help me pull all resources I need for the party.

I am so proud of my DIY invites and so I posted all variations I was able to make.

Here's one of the many reasons that kept me busy for the past month.


Ist attempt: theme = cars

2nd attempt: theme = blue dots

3nd attempt: theme = blue dots

4th attempt: theme = angry birds!!! version 1 ^__^


5th attempt: theme = angry birds!!! version 2 ^__^


6th attempt: theme = angry birds!!! version 3. The FINAL invitation!!!* Isn't he cute? ^__^*

This one was for the tarpaulin!!!
Baby J says "Present!" :P

I'm so proud I was able to make cute not - so angry birds invitation and banner!!!

--- Proud and Happy Mommy

Can I be just a Stay At Home Mom (SAHM)?

2011-08-18T21:29:00.001+08:00

Wow! It's been 7 weeks now of my mommyhood! Yey! I'm surviving each day of dirty diapers, less sleep pa lang at night (wag naman sanang sleepless nights), alburuto/ligalig moments (alburuto means agitated) and sore nipples but I'm still equally happy and contented.

In 2 weeks time, I will be returning for work. *Sigh*
Can I just be a Stay at Home Mom (SAHM) like some of my friends? *Sigh again*
I don't want to leave my so cute baby at home. Feeling ko, even if I go to office, my mind will be at home thinking of my baby. How is he? If he has been fed on time. If he burps after each feeding. If he squirms and cry before sleeping. If this and if that... Aaaarrrggghhhh!!! Grabe, totoo pala yung mga narinig kong testimonies of my friends who had babies. You can't just let someone look after your baby when you're at work. Mas gusto mo pa rin na hands-on ka on your baby.

We're lucky because my mom agrees to stay with us to help me look after our baby. We have been blessed as well because we didn't get a hard time looking for our house-help to take care of all the house chores. But even if with Mama with us, I am proud to say, I am all hands-on to baby Jared.

Hay (Sigh), If only A's salary can cover all of our expenses, or better say GROWING EXPENSES, I will definitely wear my SAHM hat. But for now, I have to go back to work and help out A to provide for our family.

At 7 weeks, our baby has grown so fast!!! We believe he is now at between 7-8kgs. He doesn't look like a 7-wk old baby but a 4-month old one. Hahaha!!! Super takaw kasi. As in!!! His Pedia said his brain has developed faster than regular babies at his age by the behaviors he is showing us. We are really thankful to God for giving us such a wonderful child. We are confident baby Jared is intellectually gifted too just like his parents!!! : P

Aaaawww, just by looking at him now (Baby Jared, sleeping while I create this entry) my heart melts.
Well, who wouldn't be?


Photo taken on Aug. 17, 2011.. Playtime with Mommy... Baby Jared is a certified Happy Baby!

Photo take on Aug. 18, 2011. It's a bit gloomy weather that is why lightning is not so good. :D Baby Jared loves it when we talk with him and he replies with a cooing sound!!! Kakatuwa!

I won't go weary

2011-08-04T19:41:00.001+08:00

...to stare at you, my precious,
my joy, my love
and now my life.

Take each day slowly.

Don't be in a rush to grow.

I want to witness each step you take as you explore the wonders of the world.

Don't be afraid,

I'll be on your front to make sure the road you'll take is safe.

I'll be at your side to guide you on each journey and

I'll be at your back to catch you if ever you will stumble and fall.

Take each step bravely my son,

Mommy will be there for you, no matter what.

Mommy loves you so much!!!

Sharing my side: August is breastfeeding month

2011-08-02T14:58:00.002+08:00

I am a month-old nursing Mom and counting....

I already talked about my experience on breastfeeding on this entry but let me continue and share some more since August is the month of breastfeeding.

My son, Aedan Jared is a vigorous sucker. It is painful everytime I feed him. My nipples are sore (as always since day 1). Even if he latched on properly, still, the pain is there. There are times he will bite on my nipples and Boy oh Boy, that is really painful. Recently (about 2 weeks ago, apart from biting), he learned to pull my nipples when he is upset or when he tries to get his best position to sleep (He do this everytime inaantok na sya) Hay naku! Talaga naman! Napapasigaw ako.

My MIL (Mother in Law) used to teased me na "Nag-aaway na naman kayong mag-ina..."

I tried putting on nipple cream to help ease the pain and soreness. It works, yes, but as mentioned, everytime I feed my son, the pain is there as well because he is indeed a vigorous sucker. As what I read from books, babies who suck vigorously are also called "Barracudas". Dabbing on my very own milk on my cracked and sore nipples helps and actually heals them. Yun nga lang, nasusugat ulit.

I have been away from home and my baby for more than 3 times now. My baby fed on extracted milk from which I pumped out manually from my boobies and put in the fridge so A and I can have our "US" time. Being away from home for several hours resulted to big, swollen, hard and painful breasts or termed as "breast engorgement". With this condition, we need to immediately go home. And when we get home, I still need to rest at least 30mins before I can feed baby J or pumped the milk out just to be relieved from pain. But pain does not stop after pumping out milk, it is still there. A throbbing and itchy feeling combined. Hu hu hu. Hardships and sacrifices all for your little one.

I admit, there were more than a couple of times I thought of giving up breastfeeding. I even consulted our Pedia for a formula to give just in case my milk is not enough or dries up when I report for work a month from now. I confess, that in my head, I am really thinking of mix-feeding.

But despite of these pains and rants on breastfeeding, I still do it and don't have any plans (as for now...hehehe) to give up breastfeeding. I do a lot of reading on breastfeeding so as to keep me in the zone and be positive on continuing breastfeeding. I also follow old-school-tips on breastfeeding that really works such as:

good diet and nutrition since I am still feeding for two
Malunggay, malunggay and malunggay always on my food with soup or sometimes, it's just malunggay soup only mixed with Knorr cubes.
Making sure I drink lots of water every day to keep me hydrated.

I know my son will benefit most from this sacrifice. Basta, all the best for him. I will provide and give my all as long as I can even if it means that I will undergo hardships. To moms, mom-to-be and women who will happen to read this, I am telling you to help promote breastfeeding. I have talked about its advantages on my previous post.

Bottom line, I know i made the right choice of having my shot on breastfeeding and hoping, I can sustain this for x months and even years for my son.

just a month-old-nursing-mom and counting...

These Breasts are Blessed

2011-07-28T10:55:00.003+08:00

Welcome to the Milk Mama Diaries Carnival (July). For this month, we join the National Nutrition Council - Department of Health in celebrating Nutrition Month with the theme "Isulong ang Breastfeeding - Tama, Sapat at EKsklusibo!" [This is Tagalog - apparently, it translates as "Push Breastfeeding Forward - Correct, Sufficient, and Exclusive." Participants will share their experiences in promoting breastfeeding or their tips on how breastfeeding should be promoted. Please scroll down to the end of this post and check out the other carnival participants.

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Breast milk is still best for babies. We normally hear this in each milk formula advertisements there is. And even from our own family, relatives, friends and neighbors who nursed, this will be the one-liner sentence they will give you in terms of feeding your newly born.

When I got pregnant with my son, A and I decided that our first option is to breastfed the baby because of many advantages it can bring to us and to the baby.

The most nutritious way to feed your baby. - An amazing craft by God. Everything a baby need to be healthy can be found in mother's milk.

Most economical. - Saves you lots of money considering the very demanding need of your baby to satisfy his/her hunger and nutrition needs. From what I heard from other parents, a typical baby can consume one big can of formula milk in one week and can get even more depending on his ability and capacity to drink. Imagine that!!! It can help parents to re-allocate supposedly budget for formula milk to other things you have to buy for the baby such as diapers, vitamins, vaccine, etc. Parents are not force to buy a set or dozen of feeding bottles, sterilizer, and other accessories needed to feed your baby. Even though I am breast feeding, we still bought few feeding bottles and milk storage bottles basically just to store extracted milk that we need when we go out.

We got this since its the brand most recommended to us in terms of durability.


We use this to store extracted milk in the fridge for later consumption

Always available - Less work. No need to scoop then and there. No need to boil water. Lesser time is needed to feed your baby. No worries to ran out of supply. No need to stock up and horde from supermarket. When he/she gets hungry, you just need your hand and pull out your boob. :P

Breastfed babies are said to have a closer bonding with the Mom. I hope not to the extent that my son will be teased as Mama's boy.

A rewarding feeling for any Mom. - I know all of other Mom's who will read this will certainly agree to me that though breastfeeding has its fair share of hardships and pain, you will and never can express in words how wonderful and amazing you feel within when you see you satisfied your baby's hunger by your own milk. Each moment you held your baby close to your breasts, chest and of course your heart, it brings such a rewarding and remarkable happiness to a Mom.

To date, I am a nursing mom for exactly 30 days now. I am so much thankful that I am able to feed my son by these breasts. Though I must admit that until now, I still have sore and throbbing nipples. But I can say that I am happy and proud. I am hoping that I can still supply my baby for at least a year. They said that constant or regular feeding helps you produce and stimulate milk. I am a bit worried that by the time I come back to work, my supply of milk will ran out fast. I hope breast pump will help me out on this serious work.

For other tips and information about breast feeding, check out the other Carnival posts:

Breastfeeding promotion - a view from a UK doctor by Good Enough Mom
Taking Breastfeeding Further by Mec as Mom
http://fabnaima.blogspot.com/2011/07/more-on-breastfeeding-promotion-plus.html
http://esciebossingnirudy.blogspot.com/2011/07/my-18-days-experience-as-nursing-mom.html

It's not funny at all - PLM Planking

2011-07-26T17:31:00.001+08:00

On my blog hopping and reading, i saw this post from Mae that directed me as well to Maude's post.

I admit that I felt 3 emotions instantly.

Disgusted
Sad and
Ashamed

I totally agree with what Mae and Maude said on their respective blogs.

Who wouldn't feel such if you see these?

I am an Iska / PLMayer and I am proud to be one.

I hope these kids (don't want to call them adults because they don't act they should be. Nasan na ba ang utak ng mga batang ito?!!! *Sigh*)

Morning Date

2011-07-25T22:49:00.000+08:00

Yey! and Yey!!! Why?

1. I made it! We made it. We were able to see HP7.2 in the big screen and not just in an ordinary movie house but at

2. IMAX.

Though it's just 25 days after giving birth, I made sure I will see the last installment of Harry Potter movies. There's no way I will let this pass. Never!!! Even with my Mom's constant bickering to stay home. I already let Transformers 3 (TF3) pass though I've been dying ~~wanting~~ to see it as well.


Peechur muna bago mag-start ang movie

It was only now that I gave IMAX a try. Why? because I believe watching HP7.2 at a more wider and bigger screen will make my movie experience more thrilling and exciting. Forget about the high ticket price (P450 per pax w/o FOOD!!!) basta need to have my IMAX experience once and for all. But I've proven that big 3D glasses does not necessarily mean bigger and better view. Nakakapango pa nga yung 3D shades nila eh. It's really on the proper angel and sitting arrangement. But I must say, parang I was just a foot away from the screen. Dun bongga ang IMAX. Another comment is, the seats are not even that comfy. And it clinks when you move. Nakaka-distract tuloy while watching the movie. *Sigh* Bawiin ko na kaya yung 2nd Yey ko? :P

I find this movie experience quite unusual for A and I since it's our first time as well to watch a movie on it's first screening time. As in 10:30AM!!! Imagine that! hehehe. We normally get late in the afternoon showtime or last full show. But this time, umagang umaga talaga! hahaha. Iba na pala talaga kapag may baby na. It's double effort for QT.

The movie runs for almost 3 hours. And since I'm a nursing mom, we have to go home ASAP. No more side trips, strolling and even window shopping. Even before the movie ended, my breasts are already engorged. A sign that my son (who we left under my Mom's care) is already hungry. We just had a quick visit to MOA's Hypermarket to buy bread, and our take home lunch. A wanted to have lunch at our favorite noodle house but I insisted for a take home lunch instead. Engorged breasts are painful and itchy kasi. :-(

By exactly 2PM, we were home. What a kalokang movie date it was. Daig pa namin ang highschool. Diretso uwi! hehehe.

Anyways, here's my short review/feedback about HP7.2. If you haven't seen the movie yet, I advise you to stop reading now or I will just spoil it for you:

Loved it to the max!!!
The scenes, especially the highlights from the book was shown in the movie.
Cinematography is superb!
Characters were given their fair chance to shine except for Ginny Weasley. Parang kulang ang exposure nya sa HP7.2. Dinaig pa sya ni Luna Lovegood. I loved it how JK Rowling made a hero in Neville Longbottom. Cool!!!
Fight scenes were superb!!! It's bloody awesome! I love Mrs. Weasley and Bellatrix Lestrange duel! I was so thrilled reading it from the book and imagining how they did their fight. I was super contented how they translated the duel in the movie!!!
Alan Rickman a.k.a Severus Snapes was so brilliant and effective in his acting as "Always".. :D
Ron and Hermione's kissing scene sucks!!! Ano ba yun? Mas ok pa yung kissing scene ni Harry and Hermione sa HP 7.1
Ending is cool. I loved how they they dressed up old-married versions of Harry, Ginny, Ron and Hermione. As expected, Hermione was way way far in fashion sense than Ginny. Hehehe.
Overall rating = 5 Blue Stars!!! ( oh ha! hottest star dapat :P )

It hits me

2011-07-21T10:49:00.005+08:00

July 19, exactly 3 weeks after giving birth, I suddenly broke down and cry. Postpartum depression hits me. Nyay! Well, all I know was I am pissed and I feel low.

We just finished watching TV and about to go to our room to tuck the baby to bed as well so we can all rest and sleep. A was surprised seeing me crying on the couch. I just said "Naiinis ako eh!"

A, being a loving husband, get near me, hugged and kissed me on my forehead and then told me that I should not cry cause it may affect the baby.

I don't know!!! At that time it seems all my frustrations bottled up to my neck and I can't breathe!!! I am irritated!!! There are things I am certain why I am pissed. Why?

It's hot!!! I feel hot. I am perspiring so much that my hair (those near the "batok") are always wet. I can't take just bathe to freshen myself because of many "pamahiin" and beliefs or simply safety precautions to avoid the "Binat".

In line with not getting all the "Ligo-Galore" I am so longing for, I smell not-so-good! I smell a bit sour and stinky (But not so foul...basta there's a weird smell). It's because I am leaking milk over my dress almost every feeding sessions with my baby. And I can't just change that often or the laundry will pile up to the ceiling. My mom says the smell that is coming out of my system is natural coz I am breastfeeding. Aaarrggghhhh!!! If only I can get all the "Ligo" I want!!! But not yet...My Mom is watching over all my actions, making sure I follow the rules. *Sigh*

I can't eat those food that relaxes me. I can't have cold drinks and desserts. I need to stuff myself with soup, malunggay etc... to keep the supply of milk flowing. What about the grilled liempo, fried chicken and the crispy pata? Hay, i am craving for more.

But all of this self-centeredness vanished when i held my son again. As I was feeding him, I simply stare at his so angelic face and I suddenly came back to my senses. That all of these sacrifices are nothing. It's just the start. These are so simple and I have to prepare myself for more. But whatever parenting hardships i may face, I know I will surpass it all because i am equipped with the greatest weapon i can make use of...the UNCONDITIONAL LOVE.

Aaawww...I am a Mom na talaga! ^__^

QT means "us"

2011-07-18T12:46:00.009+08:00

QT means Quality Time. And when I say QT, I mean QT for A and I. An event, a moment or a time, exclusive for us.

I used to write about our QTs on my (see this) on my old blog and realized I have stopped talking about it here in my new blog and so is the reason of this entry. ^__^

Yesterday was our (Adrian & I) first time to be away from our son, Jared after 18days of giving birth. It was just me and hubby. We were away for 4 hours because we did the following:

1. Attended Sunday Service: Last July 10, we bought Jared with us attending our ever first Sunday together as a family! Yey! But as expected, in the middle of the service, Jared woke up and started crying. In order not to disturb the rest, Jared and I were asked to leave the room for a while until he calms down and be quiet again. So yesterday, we decided to leave Jared at home under my Mama's care ensuring he has enough supply of breast milk to keep him from getting hungry.

2. Grocery: Once a month, we do our groceries. It was still the same items we have in our cart since Jared is 100% breast fed and his diapers and other toiletries are still enough from our previous shopping. We did it fast so as to be at home on or before 2pm. We decided to buy a take-home food and have our lunch at home instead because I am getting worried about Jared. Wondering if he runs out of milk or what. My 1st separation anxiety, I supposed. :D

And as we settle inside the cab on our way home, A and I had a short talk, that we should always find time to be together (without the baby) so as to continue to have our QT (Quality Time). Just the two of us. We both agree that having our own bonding time will be healthy for our relationship as husband and wife. Yes, it is indeed a remarkable feeling when we are with our son...but we have to remind ourselves, that there was A and I first.

Our next attempt to have our QT is scheduled next weekend. Have to watch the last installment of HP7. I hope we get our tickets this time. *crossing fingers*

Time to extract milk again to ensure Baby Jared will have enough supply of milk by Sat. :P

Mom - Me!

2011-07-12T17:15:00.004+08:00

Yes! I am a certified Mother, Mom or Mommy now. The feeling is a mix of emotions but I am liking it so much. Today, my son, Aedan Jared is already 2-weeks old. He grow so fast!!! He gained additional 0.5 lbs from 8.2lbs from birth, now 8.7lbs in weight and is now 57cm from 53cm from birth. Wow! I am growing a basketball player in the crib.

I'm surviving dirty diapers and partial-sleepless nights. But it's perfectly fine. I enjoy it. Just simply looking at my son while he sleeps puts me in cloud nine. What more the other milestones he will share with us. Now, each day for me is more exciting. If I was thankful before for each day that God entrusted to me, now, I am more and more thankful. More positive and more colorful! Basta!!! Saya-saya! *wink*

I'm so blessed! We are so blessed. I'm running out of words to describe how happy and contented I am now as a new Mom to my son. ^__^

For now, I will end this entry sharing this:

Thank you Lord for Our Bundle of Joy

Buntis No More!!!

2011-07-06T14:00:00.004+08:00

Time to create a new baby ticker for our Son's first birthday!!! ^__^

Some things I can't avoid....

2011-06-27T17:42:00.007+08:00

SHOPPING!!! or simply BUYING things for myself, for my family, for someone, etc. *big grin*

Yes! I am a typical woman. I get frustrated if I go home w/o something from a store especially when I go to malls. There's this big urge to buy!!! Shopaholic Me? Maybe! hehehe....Ok! Ok! I admit. I am a one of them!!! hihihi...It makes me happy going home with something new with me. Be it food (a take out), school supply (i.e. glue, paper or pen), an item for the kitchen or some bling bling or accessory for me!!! Weeee!!!!! It's something only girls can understand. Sure, my girlfriends can so relate! :P

So for today, though I didn't visit the mall, I made another purchase from my office mate who sells accessories for women. I love trinkets...so it was an easy sale for my colleague when she showed me this:

Made some variations of shots from my iPhone Photo Apps: ^__^

Camera: Camera Plus
Effect:None

Camera: Diana
Lens: Classic Lomo
Frame: Fabric

Camera: Camera Plus
Effect: Sketch
Frame: Soft Edge

Camera: Diana
Lens: Classic Lomo
Frame: Fabric

Camera: Diana
Lens: God Father
Frame: Fabric

Wallet Damage: almost 11.5 USD
Happy Meter: 9

Buntis 09: Baby Shower Party

2011-06-24T21:15:00.011+08:00

Date: June 13, 2011
Guests: FES friends and colleagues
Venue: FES Office
Remarks: Simple, Short, but Sweet and Lot's of Fun!!! ^__^

Thanks to all the beautiful gifts for our baby!!! So loved them!

Buntis 08: Party! Party!!!

2011-06-15T18:36:00.003+08:00

In 2 days time, I am officially full term!!! Yey!!! Entering my 37th week on Friday. Whew! (konti na lang, we will get to see and hold of our baby boy!) *super excited*

Last Monday, June 13, my friends and office mates threw a baby shower party for me. It was a short but very fun-filled celebration that we squeezed in during lunch break. The food was uber great and tasty. There were games as well where our boys participated willingly. Hilarious and exciting get together.

I will share more details on a separate entry. I want to back up my kwento with pictures. Still waiting for the pix from my office mate.

Well, as mentioned on my last entry on buntis moments, we have a name for our little one!!!

DIY gift boxes for the guests with yummy brownies inside! ^__^

Big Screen

2011-06-04T10:28:00.008+08:00

For 3 straight weeks, A and I together with one of my brothers are enjoying a good movie treat for ourselves week after week!!! Isn't it awesome?! ^__^

We are trying to get "OUR-TIME" as much as we can before our little bundle of joy arrives 5 weeks from now. Of course nothing will compare to the arrival of the our prince. No movie will make me as ecstatic while waiting for the Big Day than any movie premiere.

Next in line?

Wait, did I tell you that we just avail of Globe's prepaid promo where it every P200 worth of prepaid card you buy brings you for 1 "FREE" movie pass of your choice in any Ayala malls!!! We bought total of P2,400 worth of prepaid cards = 12 FREE movie passes! Weeeeee!!!!!!

Only free pass is worth P150 so you have to add on just in case you want to have 3D or sure seats!!! Plus don't forget your budge for popcorn and sodas! :D

Still not bad ayt? You get to enjoy goodness of both worlds. ^__^

Buntis 07: Getting Ready

2011-05-31T11:54:00.014+08:00

To date, I'm now in my 34 weeks and 4 days!!! Whew! 5 weeks more and 3 days says my ticker. A and I are really excited to see our little boy. But to be honest, I am a little nervous as well when the delivery time comes. Rest assured, I can make it!!! *fingers crossed*

As days progress, we bought baby things one by one. Had few purchases of baby clothes and some major baby items like stroller and crib. I realized, baby stuff are costly!!! Especially if you invest on good brands and quality products. A even posted our first purchase of diapers here. ^__^

Sharing some of our purchase for our baby. BTW, we already have a name for him. Will reveal it in another post. :P

Little Cowboy set

Onesies
( Dont know why I can't post it horizontally :-( )

Buntis 06: Dont touch my Birdie

2011-04-13T17:54:00.004+08:00

Boy oh boy!!! See that protruding pototoy? Hihihi

His Dad-To-Be and I are now contemplating on baby names. I already have one that starts with J, my initial and one more that starts with A, my hubby's. Ofcourse it does not have to start in A or J but I want it to be that way. :D

For the A-name, we are not decided yet. Still considering lots of A names. Dad-To-Be is proposing silly names like Oz or Boy.

Haller!!! I won't let my son-to-be ridiculed for the rest of his life with such name...NEVER!!!
I am open in accepting suggestions...any one? :D